by April Welch, The Mental Clutter Coach
Now that we've covered all the essential topics for back to school:
- Back to School Checklist
- Morning Routines
- Time Management for Back to School
- Athletic Students
- Housework a.k.a. :: Chore Wars
- Homework
It's only natural to discuss the maintenance plan. Yes, similar to oil changes for the car - furnace checks for the house or even semi-annual dental exams, there are preventative measures a family can take throughout the academic year that contribute to decluttering and keeping a student on track.
Decluttering Paper
The end of the quarter is a great benchmark for decluttering paper. Helping the student clear graded papers, they no longer need to keep track of, is an excellent practice. Be sure they check with their teachers to make sure assignments have been recorded in the grade book before discarding.
Decluttering Bags
The end of the week is an ideal benchmark for the bag task. Rarely does anyone feel like dumping a backpack out at the end of a Friday, however, projects that can require larger time blocks may be lurking within the depths of the clutter. Also, teaching a student to maintain their bag at the end of the 'work week' can help nurture other habits like picking up after themselves during transition times.
Decluttering Lockers
School vacations are excellent benchmarks for the locker declutter :: The 2 weeks in December, the 1 week in the spring and for some the single week in February. Discussing with your student the plan and then equipping them with the right materials can make this a successful venture.
On the last school day before vacation begins:
- send your student to school with a large duffel bag or a few black garbage bags
- plan to have your student picked up from school (instead of riding the bus)
- help them carry bags to the car, in a manner that appears to be a "special project"
- once home help them sort through the items, WITHOUT JUDGEMENT
- assign them laundry room & dishwasher time, have them do the laundry & dirty dishes that have come home
- stay upbeat, positive and loving. I promise you, they are mortified. Even if it doesn't seem like it.
- repeat again at the next holiday break
Decluttering the car
It's true, my backseat can resemble the local dump. And so goes the mantra of most parents that shuttle their kiddos around. A few tips that have worked for me:
- Remind the kids to pick up what they entered the car with when exiting the car
- Keep some sort of garbage container available {{I use a large plastic Starbucks cup}}
- Empty garbage from the vehicle when you fill up the gas tank, have passengers participate as well
- When all else fails, declutter the car when you're student declutters their bag
Decluttering bedrooms
Well, honestly - this one is a lost cause. Sorry to break it to you so bluntly. Truth is, the attempts will be a complete waste of time until the kiddo is ready for change.
Until that day comes, here are the 3 rules I recommend parents present to their housemate:
- There must be a clear path to emergency exits :: window & door
- The door must be able to close {in case there is company}
- There must not be a noticeable odor before arriving at the room
Most kids reach a "something's gotta give" perspective in their own time, granted it tends to take much longer than parents would like, but it does generally happen. Coincidentally, it tends to happen around the dating years. Hmm, go figure.
So, there you have it. The academic year maintenance plan. I would love to hear from you either in the comments below or over on the VolunteerSpot Facebook Page ...
How do you stay on top of decluttering throughout the academic year?
Keepin it Tidy,
april
April is a Mental Clutter Expert | Mom of 2 boys | Wife to 1 Fireman | Horrible Cook | Loyal Friend | National Public Speaker who gives you permission to be imperfect.